Guest writer,  Intuition,  Life choices

Intuition By Pamela Rudisill

Intuition has definitely played a part in my journey as a single mother of a child with special needs.  I’m married now and my son is older, and I’ve learned to rely on intuition to help us get through some crazy times.

When I first sought a diagnosis for my son at four plus years of age, the initial specialist we tried was convinced he had ADHD.  I had thought perhaps he was on the autism spectrum but this doctor was sure he was not.   I had no real reason to doubt him, as my son is high functioning and met all of his developmental milestones at the appropriate times.  He was verbal and social so perhaps the doctor was right; yet I had that uncomfortable feeling something more was going on.

After a few office visits, the doctor prescribed Ritalin.  On the day he started taking it, my son started having severe


physical tics after the second pill.  He had never displayed tics like this before and I will admit it was frightening.  He could barely stop twitching and my heart broke into a million pieces.  I called the doctor, told him what had happened, and never saw him again. We found another doctor, got the correct diagnosis (Asperger’s syndrome and Tourette’s syndrome (with OCD, anxiety, etc.), and moved forward from there.

Sure, it is possible for a doctor to make the wrong diagnosis; and yes, people can react differently to the same medication.  I tell you all this because I became angry with myself for not listening to my intuition, which could have prevented my son’s suffering. I no longer blame myself for what happened but it serves as a good reminder to pay attention to that gut feeling, that inner sense that something is not right, or that you’re on the right track when people think otherwise.

As parents, we usually know our children best and listening to them, and ourselves, will provide them with what they need.  What about what you need?  When we’re tired and overworked and don’t have the strength to stand by our intuition, let alone listen to it, it is a signal that some loving self-care is in order.  If you need to, make an appointment with yourself in your calendar and show up early!  Not only does this give you time to recoup, it fosters a greater ability to listen to your intuition.

Here are a few activities to try on a regular basis to help you become more tuned in to your intuition:

  1. Spend quiet time in nature.   Lose yourself in the wonder around you.
  2. Clear your mind of distractions using meditation or visualization.
  3. Focus inward and pay attention to the feelings in your body and what they are telling you.
  4. Go with your hunches and see where they take you.  Be willing to make mistakes.
  5. Keep a notebook and jot down when you get those gut feelings and what is happening at the time.
  6. Do something creative like painting, dancing, or writing, which exercises the right hemisphere of your brain, where intuition is drawn from.

I’m happy to say I rely on my intuition more often these days.  I am my son’s most loyal advocate and he’s doing quite well.

If you would like to talk more about intuition and/or parenting special needs children, please comment below or email me at prudisill@insightlifecoaching.co.  That’s “co” and not “com.”  Don’t ask.  😉

Thank you, Renée, for the opportunity to share my story and thoughts on intuition here at your lovely web space!



Pamela Rudisill, Founder and Director of In Sight Life Coaching, is a transformational coach for women, parents and caregivers of special needs children, single parents, and those going through a life transition.  She lives in Minnesota with her husband, son, and two extremely goofy cats:  a grey tabby and a black as night Siamese blend.  Pamela loves writing, pumpkin spice lattes, and electronic music.  Care to dance?

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  • Tempo Life Coaching

    Great article Pamela. It always amazes me how often we know in our gut that something is wrong, and yet somehow we don’t follow it. I’m glad your son is doing well and thank you for being his best advocate (not all parents fit in that category).

    • Pamela Rudisill

      Thank you, Carrie! Yes, if only we didn’t second guess ourselves as much as we do. I find intuition to be a fascinating subject and how cool that as coaches, we’re able to spend focused time developing it, or should I say developing our self-belief?

  • Maxine

    Great article. there is not a day that goes by that I don’t trust in my truths. It’s just days if I need an answer I don’t get it right away but always comes in 24 hrs. Thanks so much for sharing this much needed story. I work with children with special needs and I love them to death……

  • Joci James

    Hi Pamela,

    “People with high levels of personal mastery do not set out to integrate reason and intuition. Rather, they achieve it naturally-as a by-product of their commitment to use all the resources at their disposal. They cannot afford to choose between reason and intuition, or head and heart, any more than they would choose to walk on one leg or see with one eye.”

    Peter Senge

    It’s those nudges we get when we know something is coming from our inmate being,it always leads in the right direction.I liked the list of tips…

    Joci James


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